How am I supposed to wait till marriage?

[Shane'er]

I don't want to sound retarded or non trust in God...2 divorces, 4 kids, my age, and I am fixed...I feel that is it for me unless I settle. I am not the grand prize for a woman...I fear that I'm supposed to wait till marriage and may end up where my stuff will not work no more, or I die...I just don't understand and don't know if I will be strong enough to wait...Maybe I should be a monk or something...

[Shane'er]

Great...No one has made a remark so must mean that there will be no support and I should just not wait till marriege. I get more advice from Athiests...Well good luck with this forum...Constantly I get rejected...better off on my own I guess...

[WatchGuard]

I'm doing the same thing waiting for the right lady to come around. I'm still single, just hang in there. There are others out there they just don't want to admit it I guess.

[RockitD]

I haven't been on in a minute, but if you're still around, YES...WAIT on the Lord. If you've been through 2 divorces, it's most likely that you're going on emotion than on putting God first. There were many times my flesh had me running after females, but when the time was right (when I was 31 and a VIRGIN), God brought me my wife.

Believe me, your stuff will not disfunction. God is the Creator of sexuality and will empower you when the time is right.

[Shane'er]

Thank you, but you know, so much doubt that I feel I have takin away my chances, and yes I see I was governed by emotion in the past, and now I keep asking God to be in charge and tell myself to trust God and he has it all cooking and I need to be patient for the right time, but I still doubt and have those self pity days...How do I get myself to trust to the point even if it is 40 years that I am ok with it?